The do’s and don’ts for SEXY dirty talk.
When we’re getting sexy, we’re all about taking the seduction and anticipation up a few notches, and talking dirty can be a route to a whole new level of excitement.
The foundation for good (and fun) dirty talk is the same as other components of a healthy sexual relationship — good communication with your partner up front about what you like.
But it’s not without its rules. “Without some pre-session understanding you might find out that being called ‘Daddy’ is something your man finds uncomfortable and squawky and not sexy mid stroke,” says erotic author Jacky Lang. Or you could discover that your female partner was dying to hear in graphic detail how her body smells, tastes and feels… after an unsatisfying and boring romp in the sheets.
1. Word choice matters.
Do be descriptive. Details make stories come to life, and essentially, talking dirty is all about details.